RIP Papi,

Daddy — Daddy Dom– DDlg

So many words for a man that chooses to care and love a woman so much that she is free to let her inner young spirit out to be free, safely.

He is his babygirl’s number one fan and ultimate confidant. He praises her for trying new things, even when she is so scared to do so. His eyes light up when she walks in the room and believes in her no matter what.

He is her teacher and protector. She knows that when she needs to curl up in his arms and just be, he is right there arms wide open waiting. She knows she is safe to reach out and do new things because pity the person who messes with his girl.

He loves to take his babygirl to places she has never been before, do things she has never done before, and loves to hear her beg him for more. he loves to deflower her both sexually as well as expose her to new adventures.

Daddy is her guide, her adviser, her disciplinarian when needed, but most of all he is her Anchor. He is an unyielding, unmovable anchor in the storm. No matter what happens in the girl’s life, she knows her Daddy will be right there where he has always been, and she can hold onto that even if she is blinded by her own tears. Daddies know the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but she needs something to hold onto that will not move.

Today I found out the man who was my original Daddy,  my always Papi,  passed away. I will never make him out to be more of a person he was, he had his bad sides for sure- but I know he supported me no matter what.  He was so proud of me for leaving a verbally abusive relationship, he was proud of me for finding my career, he was proud of me for starting and staying in a Poly relationship that is good for me and advised me to always be honest no matter what.

It hurts but that is life- life comes to an end, that is part of crazy thing called life and if we are lucky- we get to find lots of love and get to share it with amazing people.  I am one of the lucky ones.

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